Disobedience (2018) Dircted by Sebastian Lelio
3B
When her estranged father, a fundamentalist Rabbi, dies suddenly, Ronit (Rachel Weisz) returns to the Orthodox Jewish community in London that she escaped years earlier (much to the relief of the community, apparently). There she rekindles her relationships with her childhood friends Esti (Rachel McAdams) and David (Alessandro Nivola), now married to one another with David in the process of assuming the responsibilities of the dead Rabbi. Ronit and Esti once again grow attracted to one another as the orthodox community recoils in disapproval and disgust. There will be repercussions but what exactly those repercussions will be takes its sweet time arriving.
Disobedience is a serious movie. You can tell by how gray it is. Indoors, outdoors, light source or not, everything is gray, gray, gray so as to match the glum, glum, glum tone of this dull, dull, dull movie. Equally subdued is the lovemaking. Weisz and McAdams engage in a much ballyhooed and wildly overrated sex scene that is tastefully tame when it should be
Blue Is the Warmest Color hot. The movie has bigger problems than that, though. Clearly the movie wants to take on the patriarchal hierarchy, sexual repression and female subservience that are hallmarks of communities organized around religious orthodoxy. But David isn't really a bad guy and the film has no desire to step on toes of potentially paying customers, so
Disobedience comes up with an ending which will simultaneously neither completely please nor thoroughly offend anyone. By the simple expedient of allowing none of the characters to get exactly what they want anyway,
Disobedience finds a way of bringing its morose but underdeveloped story to a close. Gray, gray, gray; glum, glum, glum.